Ucansi nomuntu ongamazi noma nomlingani omusha lunobuhle bakho. Yengeza kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho, ngisho nomcabango wokungavunyelwe kwabaningi kuyavusa, ubala ukuqina nokucabanga komlingani. Ucansi ebhawa luzipholele ngandlela thize futhi alumnandi njengasembhedeni. Ucansi lwendunu nokuphululwa kwalo mbhangqwana kufanelwe ukutuswa nokukhuthazwa.
Ngicabanga ukuthi intombazane enhle enekhanda elibomvu ibizama kanzima ukubuyisela umusa, yaze yawukhokha kakhulu ngokukhulu ukushesha nangokuzidela, ikakhulukazi njengoba izimo ezinethezekile zekhebhu kanokusho zivunyelwe ukukwenza kahle.